4 Water Signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces): Very In Touch With Their Emotions, It Will Be Obvious When He's Not Interested. He Keeps Secrets From You Scorpios are secretive. My period is late and I might be pregnant. How could he just not think of me at all for 3 weeks, and then randomly text me like nothing was wrong?! I also think it's easy to fall for them - at least in my case!!! But when they do finally lash out, they do so in brilliant form. He may become moody or withdrawn, which can be difficult to deal with for those who are close to him. They are passionate creatures who love to communicate. I know he read some of my emails because one of the emails I was asking him to send me my stuff from his place and I got a message from FedEx that he sent my stuff. I lost my mind. These men are secretive, alluring, mysterious, stubborn, and very intelligent. They are wonderful though, no doubt about it. So, he didn't respond for a while but when he responded he said that I guess i am right that we are not for each other and he tried his best, that he is sad and disappointed, and that he wanted to be the person that I give my love to but he wishes me to find someone who will. We never added each other on Facebook but only snapchat cause he likes snapchat a lot. The Band was on Break in the Back, i was not looking for him, was sitting at the Bar talking with the Bartender etc, having a good Time. This year, we finally met in person. But if he is unhappy for any reason no matter how minute, he will withdraw and cheat on you--this is the stinger part. They'd compliment my fashion sense, my work ethic, and tell me I'm the most interesting person they've ever met. I know they behave negative but see them positive ! And yes, Scorpio women are quite similar to us Scorpio men in many things. I've been dating a scorpio man for 3 months. (sometimes, not always, but sometimes, it's a flat our lie, esp. We were walking one day and he asked about my stress etc..I made the mistake of telling him how I got my feelings hurt about christmas, but was fine after he explained himself , I also explained that because of the stress I had caused him before I didnt want to share all the work stress I had had so I have been talking to a couple of other friends (guy friends) he shut down. Give her some space for her to get past the upset. Then I get a long reply to my text were he doesn't see us going anywhere in a relationship because I can't communicate and I make funny faces and seem to take him as a joke and not seriously. He is pure magnificence. The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers to this website may receive compensation for some links to products and services on this website. Sometimes he gets his hopes up too high and disappoints himself. This way, it's a little easier to tell if the Scorpio is interested or not. I'm pretty sure something i said or the fact that he has to repeat himself various times and doesn't understand why I laugh at everything without explanation finally reached a ticking point. Please have a spare time to help someone in confusion with scorp man.. be delighted to know some insights.. thank you very much.. Just want to ask for an honest advise. Most of time we have different opinion. Such an amazing man and my rock! He a 7 year old Me a 2 year old. The Bug came by the Bar saw me sitting there smiling at him. his actions do not depend on just the fact that he is a Scorpio). I really love him and I want to try again where I dont hurt him anymore. will ask you 100 personal questions but won't tell you much about themselves, can rev from 0 to 100 in a matter of seconds but may let off the gas just as fast (they will likely be the one to determine the speed of a new relationship), when they finally find "The One", they love them with every fiber of their being, can hold a grudge for years but is also capable of deep healing work, tender forgiveness, and bringing dark wounds to the light, will take the time to understand their partner to their core and nurture them accordingly, wants it their way and has a hard time compromising, ignites the spark of a twin flame relationship you'll never forget, although they might instigate many fights within the relationship, they will also fight for the relationship when it needs saving. And he can be pretty obvious about it, too. He may have been looking for a specific chemistry and didn't find it. He's angry. He keeps an eye on you in a caring and protective way Have you noticed your Scorpio man secretly glancing over at you or his glances drifting across the office looking for you? Even i get scared of me. The very darkest parts of who they are will begin to emerge - the longer you're with them, the more you'll notice. If you're unclear about what ghosting means, it's when someone you've been seeing disappears from your life, completely and suddenly. 2. One day we are talking future the next day he drops me cold. He's amazing, caring, funny.. Just wonderful but when he is upset, he goes off the grid. He is very supportive and lovable and caring too. Scorp men take tend to take it to heart when you go to other people especially guy friends for advice. I am at a vulnerable stage in my life right now. I like a 5-8 date minimum. He may not have found anything special in you that would make him stay. They have to prove to me and show me that they are who they say they are. Sagittarius (November 22-December 21) Sagittarians are the Zodiac's wanderers. I always have a second thought about our relationship. He doesn't care about what you think. But if the dog finally turned around and bit you then, would you think, simply because it hadn't done so before, that it came out of nowhere? I am a sadge sun otherwise and not in the least clingy or demanding. I've never commented on any article ever like this but I need advice before I approach him about this. That was only a month of knowing him. Show her you are passionate and not superficial in your attitude. He claims it was his fault, mainly due to withdrawing from depression, fear and self loathing. I can't have him and no one else will ever interest me again. This goes on for a while until you take the unfortunate hint. Girls, start dating around casually, see what else is out there besides him. I felt really shitty after reading his long descriptive text. I mean we have made so many plans. But he still is withdrawing. But do I have hope? He said "I am going to cause you stress, you will cause me stress" if we cant do that then we cant do this. But then I apologized and he responded that he needed to think about all this and take a time out for that, so he thought about it for 3-4 days, then he called me and I didn't respond and he left a voicemail saying that we shouldn't see each other anymore. It really does sux when you get stung for something so stupid and especially when you've done nothing wrong apart from be asleep.it's extremely hurtful. I've dated other Scorpios before and they were all super cool in the beginning and then they became mean afterwards so it wasn't hard for me to let go of them. They are emotional people and express the emotion either openly or keep them buried depending on whether they trust you. Both of which he said no to. I don't always know how to express my feelings and say things no matter how good at communicating I am. Dont give in to him. Very true. Because they know their emotions are so much stronger than others', they tolerate more than most people. I have been dating a Scorpio man for 2 years and a half. I would argue the opposite. Content is for informational or entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for personal counsel or professional advice in business, financial, legal, or technical matters. I just don't have time to waste. However, remember that astrology should be used as a tool to better understand your partner and your unique dynamic, not to define the relationship and its outcome. Hi all, i m Scorpio woman n my partner is Scorpio too. I would wait for him although as a Cancer I am really not good at waiting on people. He finally texted me this morning, I was starting to wonder if he was doing the #5 thing! I have a huge problem I was dating my best friend who is a Scorpio and he was such an amazing man. I need Dr. I just dont have the heart for scorpios mind games and Im tired of my emotions being played with. I have determined that a Scorpio's withdrawal usually has one of five causes (though there may be more I have not yet discovered): He is in a situation that he has mixed emotions about and is acting distant until he sorts it out in his heart. There is very little I expect and very little that fazes me but the moment I get the whiff of disloyalty I will stake out my game and take him down he will never come up. He has never been mean or anything like that. He doesn't seem like the type that could be motivated by the lover's thoughts and feelings. Give each other space. He just needs more time , to make a palace for future . This is #1 for a reason. As a Scorpio woman, I believe theres at least one more reason which is missing in that list: Scorpio Man wants to feel absolutely in control and indispensable. I know the Bug had a Gig near my Place so i went to Hogans to surprise him. Hidden in the tiring and mundane is a chance to transform your prospects in a delightful way. His withdrawal is to let you know he is upset and perhaps to punish you by ignoring your texts (manipulative, but it does happen). In other words, he is creating space in preparation to leave. They are direct and purposeful, independent and overall pretty happy. Said we must become friends b4 lovers. He . Tsurugi:I'm killed nee-san. But it was important for me to tell him that I regret what I said. I decided not to talk to him anymore and he kept asking me to talk. Recently at work, a scorpio girl was chatting me up. But I emailed him many times apologizing to him and saying that I loved him and asking him to forgive me but I did not get even one word back. Top 5 tips on how to get a Scorpio woman back: Be honest, direct and precise, don't waste her time. There is nothing I don't love about this man. When he gets offended, he will try to go about his usual routine in silence as a coping mechanism. He might do the slow fade out, meaning he stops initiating contact and when you reach out to him he takes hours or days to reply. The sun is currently in your 5th house which is the part of your chart which is all about having fun, it's about romance, and creativity, and children, your own or someone else is. Just tell him what he has done wrong and you don't want to keep silent with him because of it. Complex for sure, but no more so than any other sign. But if we want to be alone don't feel bad we just need our space. So I have made it a point to not bring that into "us" I also invited him to hangout with my friends for Thanksgiving and with family for Christmas. So that brought back memories.. Thank you. He's quite private though. Strong, handsome, great personality, warm, kind, friendly, funny, etc. But when I called him, I said that this wasn't fair that he was making the decision alone and that we need to talk so he needs to come talk to me and he responded IMMEDIATELY with 'OK!'. Scorpio is naturally suspicious but soon sees that Cancer's a softy. I am always in doubt about our relationship longevity. Their element is water, meaning they navigate the world through their emotions. Never put them under pressure , they are so sensetive . The Bug told me he is playing Music at some Bar so he invited me to come visit. Mind you, it will not be a vacation by the sea. I just concluded that a woman has far too much control over my emotions. Scorpio Detests Lying If you lie to your Scorpio lover, he will know it. 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